You’ve had your eye on someone for a while. It could be a friend you developed feelings for, someone you have been chatting with on a dating app, or someone you have run into a couple of times. You want to ask her on a date but are hesitant and nervous. What will she say? How will she react? You want her to say yes, but you also want to make a great impression and be seen as classy, thoughtful and considerate. To be seen as all those things and increase your chances of getting that first date, you should ask her for a date with flowers.

Modern-Day Dating

If you aren’t a fan of what it is like to date today, you aren’t alone. Almost 80 percent of active daters have experienced some form of “dating fatigue”! People are tired of being on dating apps, swiping all the time, matching only to have a lack of quality replies, not meeting many people outside of apps, and, worst of all, getting ghosted. Most people see modern-day dating as a dumpster fire. And who can blame them?

When You Meet Someone You Think Has Potential

Woman Receiving Flowers So when you finally meet someone you think is amazing, you want to make a great impression when you ask her out on the first date. You think she could be interested, but she seems a little hesitant or indifferent. Close the deal and make her feel special by sending flowers to ask her out on a date.
 
Sending flowers to someone you chat with on dating apps works especially well. For every match you have, she probably has 10. You need a way to get her attention and stand out from the competition. Imagine her surprise when she is scrolling through her messages and sees a You Got Flowers Link from Social Flowers! Not only will she be surprised, but you will have her attention!
 
Even if you have met someone “the old-fashioned way” (outside of dating apps), you’ll make a great impression by asking for a date with flowers. She will see you as a class act and know you are serious.
 

Don’t Know Her Address? No problem!

If you have just met someone, chances are you don’t know where they live, so how do you get flowers to her? Social Flowers is the only solution. All you need to make a memorable impression is an email, mobile, or social media contact (yes, this includes dating apps!)

Include a Message to Ask Them On a Date

When you send her flowers with Social Flowers, you include a message that she sees when accepting the flowers. Use the message to ask them out. What you say depends on both of your personalities, but have some fun with it. Here are a couple of things you can try:
  • If you have met her on an app: “Messaging is fun, but I would love to see you irl. Want to go for a coffee?”
  • Or, if you want to be a little more bold: “Would love to see that smile in person…..”
  • Or even funny: “Let’s meet, I want to make sure you’re not a catfish :)”
  • If you met them outside of an app: “Was great to meet you, thanks for the laughs. Want to grab a drink?”
  • If you have a first date in mind, tell them your plans. This works especially well if you have something in common: “You mentioned you love cycling, why don’t try…..” or “I know you love Thai food, and I know a great spot. Meet for dinner?”
 
When she accepts the flowers, they are delivered with a card, and you can send a second message. If you aren’t sure what to say, try something like:
  • “Looking forward to seeing you in person,”
  • “Looking forward to seeing you again,” 
  • “This will be fun!”
  • “The thought of Thai food this weekend is making me hungry.” 

Her Flowers Help Build Anticipation for the Date

So now she has the flowers, and they are beautiful. Chances are she will put them in a prominent place where she sees them dozens of times a day. Every time she looks at them or smells them, she will be reminded of your sweet gesture and get a little bit more excited about seeing you in person.

What if She Doesn’t Accept the Flowers?

It could happen, but at least you gave it a shot. How many times have you looked at the past and thought, “I really should have asked her out”? At least now you know, and you aren’t sitting around wondering if you should have tried. Put yourself out there, and with Social Flowers, if she doesn’t accept the flowers, you don’t pay a dime!

See How Much Taylor Loved Getting Flowers Through a Dating App

 

@social.flowers We love this video by @whoistaylorhamm on how she used Social Flowers to safely receive flowers after a first date. #socialflowers #flowers #dating ♬ Law - Yo Gotti